This post gives a voice to the victims of emotional & psychological abuse. This is often tricky to understand and victims suffer from an inner prison that is hard to escape. Thank you for listening.
Category: THE NEW FEMININE
PMS – when the princess becomes the witch
If you’re female – this post is written for you! Because I wish someone would have shared this with me years ago! If you’re male – please stay and read on! I also wish that men develop more understanding why we sometimes seem to come from another planet. I would say I behave like a…
Ways out of isolation – Attachment Theory
Intimate relationships are the masterpiece. The place where we graduate. Everything we learn and practice in friendships is being put on trial when it comes to love relationships. The closer someone gets to our heart, the more power we allow this person to have over us, the deeper we get triggered, the more we fear…
Embracing my limitations.
Embracing my limitations means knowing my abilities. It means respecting myself. I am still learning about the importance of boundaries. It can be hard work to establish these as we are being confronted with unconscious patterns while doing so. Boundaries are important to keep us alive – on a biological level but also on a…
Finding the love you’re looking for – The new feminine Part III
I’m processing my life. My last year. My thoughts and emotions. Processing and meeting myself in the midst of it all. I feel very lucky. Looking at old pictures makes me realize: I finally found the love I was looking for; the love for myself. Do you know that feeling when you look at pictures…
All my independent women… – The new feminine Part II
“You need to become more independent.” – “You can’t let a man decide over your life.” – “You are complete within yourself, you don’t need a man.” – “You need to learn to love yourself first and to feel complete without a man.” Yes, I agree. Sounds all good to me, and since a year…
The pitfalls of love.
Love is a big word. Love is a feeling. Love is a vibration. And so much more. No matter how your perception of love is, one thing is for sure: Love is powerful. I’m writing for those faithful hearts including myself who are looking for love, for true love. Who are not satisfied with compromises…
Be brave enough to receive – The new feminine Part I
Ever wondered why some women seem to get everything from a man while others are starving for some attention and tenderness? I believe these goddesses that walk through life and receive gifts, attention, romantic gestures and the very heart of a man have a secret. The goddesses as we often call them have understood what…
What to do with all these emotions?
I belong to a generation that has not clue how to deal with emotions. We’ve never learnt how to properly deal with negative emotions. Anger, frustration, rejection – there was no room for these emotions, neither at home nor at school. Negative emotions are not welcome. Anger is judged as aggression. Frustration is turned into…
